W/W Labor Day Weekend
We made it to the Evergreen State Fair this weekend. There was a petting zoo...
I think she could have stayed there the whole time and been beyond content....
There were plenty of other animals too - So much to see!
We admired the vendors crafts and fair fare :) But after 3 hours, Charlie's patience was starting to expire ... So we headed out.
I realized there were absolutely no pictures of me at the fair so I snapped one during the ride home.
The mister and I had a date night. Hooray for date nights!
Mat was there, I promise, just not in these pictures. I was quite smitten with the Shiraz and the chili chocolate -- thankfully he is not the jealous type.
Monday was rainy as all get out - so we visited our favorite antique shops and refueled with a delish veggie pizza and salad.
Hope your weekend was wondermous!
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Tuesday, September 07, 2010 |
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Poker Face
About 5 years ago Mat had an epiphany. He had been entertaining the idea of not having kids.
Mat :: Really, I was at a point where I wasn't terribly sure what I wanted in life. I had seen friends with children and the amount of sacrafices they would make. I was a fairly selfish person and I kind of still am.
Me :: All I remember is him saying something to the effect of "maybe I don't want to have kids..." And my throat closed up a tiny bit. I thought...Bullsh*t, He wants kids. I know him... I've known him for how many years?! I've seen him with my nephews and nieces -- we've talked about kids of our own. Bullsh*t. He can't be serious. Can he??
Mat :: At the time I believe I was serious. I was even more into video gaming then than I am now. I was considering all that I would have to give up in order to be a mediocre parent. I remember talking to one of my co-workers about my new found position on life. He laughed, smiled and said, "just wait man, you'll change."
Me :: I had to respond quickly and carefully. "Well, maybe I don't want to have kids either." I could tell by his face I had played my hand well. He believed me.
Mat :: She was a convincing liar.
Me :: I am when I need to be. Anyway... Some time went by. Not sure how long, but eventually something in him clicked.
Mat :: Details are sketchy, but it might have clicked sometime around the "pregnancy non-scary scare." We thought she was pregnant and had fun figuring that part out. Those d*mn tests are expensive. And I use the plural form of test, because I had to buy more than one.
Me :: He came around. Oh yes... and when he did come around, I fessed up - very on the sly. "Yeah I knew you wanted kids..." Sometimes you just have to put on a good poker face.
Mat :: ZOMG?! YOU DID?!!11! I was taken aback that she had maintained this facade about not wanting kids and how we were totally in sync with our personal desires. Then I felt guilty that I had put her in that position of having to basically go along with my selfishly motivated wishes.
Me :: I didn't know he felt guilty. That almost makes me feel a tinge of guilt for making him feel guilty. Almost. I just knew... there's no other way to put it. I had been his friend, his confidant, his better half ;) -- I knew we were meant to have children together. I just knew.
Mat :: l;sakfjsadoisadf
Me :: *boggle* The funny thing is ... I SUCK at poker.
Mat :: Yeah, me too.
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Mat :: Lets go have another baby! BOOYAH! Made your cervix go "UUUUuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"
Me :: Jerk.

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